1. House rules being ignored
Speak to the guest first (calmly, privately). If it continues, contact London Homestays with dates/times and what you said.
When things go wrong: what happens next
A simple escalation guide for hosts
Most stays are straightforward. When there’s an issue, the key is to act early, keep things calm, and use the right channel.
This guide explains:
- what counts as an emergency vs an urgent vs a non-urgent issue
- who to contact and what information to share
- what London Homestays will do next
This is guidance, not a contract document.
The golden rule: speak first, escalate second
For most day-to-day issues, the best outcome comes from a calm conversation between host and guest.
In practice:
- Speak with the guest privately and calmly as soon as an issue comes up.
- Keep it simple: one issue at a time, one clear request.
- If language is a barrier, a translation app can help (for example Google Translate, DeepL, or iTranslate). These are just examples — use whichever tool you prefer.
- Contact London Homestays if the issue is serious, repeated, or becomes a welfare/safety concern.
Why we do it this way: stepping in too early can put people on the defensive, and sometimes makes things worse. A direct, respectful conversation usually resolves things faster.
The simple flow (use this every time)
1) Is anyone in immediate danger?
- Yes → call 999 now. Then notify London Homestays as soon as possible.
- No → go to Step 2.
2) Can this be resolved with a calm conversation today?
- Yes → speak to the guest first (see How to have the conversation below).
- No / it’s serious / it keeps happening → go to Step 3 and contact London Homestays.
Step 1: What counts as what?
A) Emergency (act now)
Examples:
- serious medical issue or immediate safety risk
- fire, gas leak, break-in
- a safeguarding/welfare concern that feels urgent
What to do:
- Call 999 (immediate danger / emergency).
- NHS non-urgent health advice: call 111 (24/7).
- Non-urgent police: call 101.
- Then contact London Homestays via the out-of-hours emergency support route (numbers provided at booking confirmation / office voicemail; not published online).
B) Urgent but not an emergency (same day if possible)
Examples:
- serious conflict that is escalating
- repeated breach of house rules after you’ve explained them
- hygiene issues that aren’t improving
- the guest appears distressed, unwell, or vulnerable
- you suspect they are not where they say they are (welfare concern)
What to do:
- Speak to the guest calmly first (if it’s safe and appropriate).
- Contact London Homestays as soon as possible during office hours.
- If outside office hours and you believe it could become a safety/welfare issue, use the out-of-hours emergency support route.
C) Non-urgent (next working day)
Examples:
- minor misunderstandings (meals, laundry, bathroom timings)
- routine noise or disruption
- small maintenance issues
- the guest wants to extend, change dates, or asks about payments
What to do:
- Speak to the guest first. If it doesn’t improve after you’ve explained it clearly (or if it keeps happening), then email us or call the office when we’re open.
- If it’s the weekend: it’s fine to email us. We’ll reply or call you back when the office reopens.
- WhatsApp: message-only during office hours and not for emergencies.
Step 2: How to have the conversation (simple and effective)
You don’t need a long discussion. A short, calm message works best.
A simple 3-step structure:
- Describe the issue (fact, not judgement): “I’ve noticed…”
- Say the impact: “It makes it difficult because…”
- Make a clear request: “Could you please… from today?”
Example:
“I’ve noticed the bathroom is often left wet after use. It makes it hard for others to use it. Could you please wipe down the sink and shower after you use it, from today?”
If language is a barrier: write your message and run it through a translation app (for example Google Translate or DeepL), then show both versions.
Two short lines you can use if you’re unsure what to say:
- Option 1 (neutral): “Thanks for letting me know. Let’s sort this out together.”
- Option 2 (if rules are being ignored): “I need this to stop today. If it continues, I’ll need to involve London Homestays.”
Avoid:
- arguing late at night
- making threats you don’t want to follow through on
- negotiating “special rules” (especially for 16–17 placements)
Step 3: When to contact London Homestays
Please contact London Homestays when:
- there’s a safety, welfare or safeguarding concern
- the issue is serious
- you’ve spoken to the guest calmly, and it’s still continuing
- you believe the placement may become unworkable
Step 4: What London Homestays needs from you
When you contact us, please include:
- Guest name
- Address and postcode
- What happened (2–4 sentences)
- When it started and how often it’s happened
- What you’ve already said/done (briefly)
- Whether the guest is 18+ or 16–17
- What outcome you want (e.g., “please speak to the guest”, “please advise”, “this isn’t workable”)
If you have it, add:
- photos of damage (if relevant)
- screenshots (if relevant)
- times/dates (keep it factual)
Step 5: What happens next (typical outcomes)
London Homestays will usually do one or more of the following:
- Clarify expectations with the guest (and school/agent if relevant)
- Agree a practical reset (for example, a reminder of rules, agreed quiet hours, laundry plan)
- Support you with boundaries (what you can reasonably insist on, and how to word it)
- Escalate appropriately where welfare/safeguarding is a concern (especially for 16–17 placements)
- If needed, consider a move (last resort)
A move is a last resort. In most cases, issues can be resolved with clear communication and a reset of expectations. If a placement can’t be resolved or can’t continue safely, we will coordinate the next steps and arrange a move where appropriate.
Important: please don’t assume a move is the default solution. We will try to resolve the issue first before considering a move.
Common scenarios (quick playbook)
2. Hygiene / cleanliness concerns
Speak to the guest first and keep it factual (“Please keep the bathroom tidy after use”). If it continues, contact London Homestays.
3. Noise / coming in late
Speak to the guest first and agree quiet hours. If it continues, contact London Homestays.
4. Guest wants to extend / change dates
Ask them to contact London Homestays. Don’t agree extensions directly.
5. Guest asks to use your address for official admin
Tell them to contact London Homestays first. Don’t agree on the spot.
6. Under-18 placements (16–17) — anything feels “off”
Contact London Homestays promptly for guidance. Don’t make informal agreements about staying out late, overnight stays elsewhere, or “special permissions”.
FAQs
Will London Homestays always move a guest if I ask?
Not always. We’ll look at what’s happening, speak to the relevant people, and work out what needs to happen next. We’ll usually try to resolve things first before considering a move.
Should I try to “push through” a situation?
Minor misunderstandings are normal. Most issues are best resolved by calm, clear communication between host and guest. Repeated rule breaches, welfare concerns, or escalating conflict should be raised early.
What if I’m worried about safeguarding?
If there is immediate danger, call 999. Otherwise contact London Homestays promptly and follow the safeguarding guidance for the placement.
Contacting London Homestays
Office hours: Monday–Friday, 9am–5pm (phone lines 11am–3pm).
Non-urgent over the weekend: email us and we will reply or call you back when the office opens.
Out of hours: emergency support is available for genuine emergencies relating to active placements. Emergency numbers are provided at booking confirmation and via office voicemail (not published online).
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Last updated: 11 March 2026
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