House rules, visitors and address use
Clear expectations for house rules, visitors, daytime routine and address use.
This resource helps new hosts set clear expectations kindly, and stay aligned with what guests have been told to expect. It’s written for adult (18+) stays and for students aged 16–17 where relevant.
1) Nature of a homestay stay (plain English)
Homestay accommodation is a room in a host-occupied home with shared facilities. Guests are expected to follow your household’s normal routines and reasonable house rules. It is not the same as renting a self-contained flat.
2) House rules and keys
A simple check-in conversation prevents most misunderstandings. We recommend covering:
- Keys: guests should be given keys and shown how to lock the door properly.
- Privacy and shared spaces: what is shared, what is private, and any areas guests should avoid.
- Quiet hours and household routines: for example typical bathroom and meal times (where meals are included).
- Safety basics: locking doors/windows, and the fire escape route(s).
At check-out, please collect all keys and entry fobs/cards. This is one of the most common issues after departures.
3) Visitors and overnight guests
Day visitors:
- Guests may have visitors only with your permission and in a way that respects your household (noise, shared spaces, and other household members).
Overnight visitors:
- Overnight visitors are not usually permitted. If a guest asks about an overnight visitor, please refer the request to London Homestays. Any exception must be approved by London Homestays in writing in advance, and guests should not assume this is possible.
If you are unsure, or a guest puts you under pressure, contact London Homestays for guidance.
4) Daytime routine (weekdays)
Homestay is typically designed for students, interns and short-stay guests who are out at school, college or placement during weekday daytime hours. As a guide, guests are normally out of the home during the day (roughly 10:00–16:00, Monday–Friday), unless agreed otherwise in advance. This helps the household routine run smoothly and avoids misunderstandings.
If a guest needs to be at home during these hours:
- Occasional daytime presence (for example illness, a delivery, or a scheduled remote class): guests should tell you in advance and follow house rules (quiet use, shared spaces kept free).
- Regular daytime home working or full-time online study: guests should tell London Homestays before booking, so we can check whether your home is suitable and seek your agreement in advance.
5) Using your address
Your home address is personal. Guests should not use it for banking, credit or National Insurance registration unless you give prior written permission.
Welfare and emergency use:
- Using the address for essential welfare or emergency purposes (for example registering with a GP/NHS services, or providing details to an embassy) is usually fine, as long as you are aware and it has been agreed.
Good practice (recommended):
- If a guest asks to use your address for anything beyond welfare/emergency purposes, ask what it’s for and take time to decide.
- If you do give written permission, keep it specific and time-limited (for example ‘for this purpose only, during this stay’).
- If you prefer not to allow it, it is fine to say no. If the guest needs help, refer them to London Homestays.
6) When to contact London Homestays
Office hours: Monday–Friday, 9am–5pm (phone lines 11am–3pm).
WhatsApp: 020 8395 0333 (message-only service, monitored during office hours). Please do not use WhatsApp for emergencies.
Out-of-hours emergency support is available for genuine emergencies relating to current placements only. Out-of-hours emergency phone numbers are provided at booking confirmation and via our office voicemail (we do not publish them on the website).
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